Part of the reason, I belive, that Masters are viewed with such suspision is the fact that most people belive we chose the weak. That if I have a slave they must be weak minded, mentally damaged individuals who have been brain washed and beaten into submission. Admitadly this could be a similar reaction to when I introduce my fiancé - people just think I'm too dumb or ugly to have such a man, intact the only way I could possibly have somone like him is if ge were blind deaf and dumb...personally I say it would help but that's another story.
Personally I belive that the common view is that Masters prey on the weak. Pluck those that don't know better or can't defend themselves and then beat and mentally degrade the person until they submit.
Again I need to preface what I will say next with; The below is true of GOOD Masters ( Masters being used as anyone whatever gender who owns slaves) there are and always will be twats out there so use common sense and interview the Master before submitting. The below is only somewhat true of Doms.
I will admit it here and now, I like broken boys. Ones who are perfectly level headed don't interest me anywhere as much as a broken boy. I know it kind of seems to go against what I just said but hear me out for a sec.
There are many people out there who when they look for a house they look for "fixer-uppers" ones thst are damaged in someway. They do this because they enjoy renovating the property. They will see something about it that they fall in love with and then see in their minds eye just how amazing it could be if somone put the time and effort in. Yes, they may knock parts or even the majority of the house down, but they will keep and enhance the bit they fell in love with. Chances are, if they had shown this little run down cottage to anyone else, and then gone on to say "isn't it beautiful, don't you think it will look amazing" the friend would have said "no....you twat". Or my friends would.
Being a Master is similar. You see something, a glint or a spark...just something. Then you see just how amazing that person could be if the time and effort was put in. I would like to point out, "how amazing that person could be" does not translate to "how good a cocksucker that person could be". I have said I go for broken boys, I say that because often there is something so amazing but they just don't see it. It could be their willingness to please (which is currently getting them walked all over and just needs direction), their capacity to love or even just how smart they are. Maybe they don't see it or need their confidence/self worth/sense of self worked on...but either way you see something that you want to cultivate because you KNOW that person is great now but could be absolutly stunning.
Another myth I'd like to bust. I do NOT want a pushover. I want somone who will, in a respectful way, test me to see if I'm worth him submitting too. I like cheeky subs, admitadly everything should be done with respect... But if they know where the line is it's like showing that their submission to me is a part of normal life for them.
My ideal slave does not cower before me but kneels proudly. Proud of his owner, proud of the service he provides and more importantly proud of the person he has become. He knows his place and does not view himself as second best, after all why would his Master want anything but the best admitadly he may not understand that all the time, but still knows it's true and knows his Master sees him as something special not just as a fucktoy. He knows his Master will be there to guide and teach him to show him how his true self and how strong and content that person can be. His Master may not micro manage, control every little part of his life, but is happy that he has given all of himself over to one person to control in whatever way they wish and trusts that person to do only what he thinks will better the slave
A slave I talked to recently explained that whatever happened she knew that her Master viewed her as a "treasures posetion" and that's the way it should be
Nb all gender references I have used are interchangable... Well except he ones I used about myself lol
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